Together, we will design a customized and significant ceremony that embodies your distinct love story, whether it be for a wedding, vow renewal, or blessing. This extraordinary day will honor not only your commitment to each other but also the journey that has united you, the memories you have created, and the aspirations you share for the future. Every aspect will be carefully designed to resonate with your personalities and the affection you have for each other, making it a day that you and your guests will treasure for a lifetime.
Ceremony fees include: All meetings, travelling time*, creation of the ceremony, research, and officiating on the day.
**Please Note:**
*Travel Costs - For venues more than 30 miles from our location in Ellon, Aberdeenshire, there is a surcharge of 45p per mile.
I require a 50% deposit (non-refundable) which will secure the date for the day.
The balance is due no later than one calendar month before your ceremony.
Funeral fees are due the day before the ceremony.
Meditation classes and counselling are charged at the time of booking.
How much does it cost?
Costs or all of our ceremonies can be found here
Options for the wedding ceremony
Here are various options that you can incorporate into your wedding ceremony. You can select one or multiple of these, and we will tailor your ceremony accordingly.
Quaich ceremony
A quaich ceremony is a traditional Scottish wedding ritual where a two-handled cup is shared to represent the union and trust of the couple.
Bless the quaich: It is customary to have the quaich blessed before it is used.
Fill the quaich: You may fill the quaich with a beverage of your preference, like whisky, or mix two drinks to symbolize the couple becoming one.
Drink from the quaich: You can either sip from the quaich or drink it entirely. One person can hold a handle or you can pass the cup to each other.
Pass the quaich: Optionally, you may pass the quaich around among the wedding party and guests.
Jumping the broom
Is a wedding custom in which a pair leaps over a broom to represent their union:
This custom can signify:
Clearing away the old and embracing the new
Uniting two families
Honoring ancestors
Marital love triumphing over all negative forces
Honey Kiss
A "honey kiss" marks the union of a newlywed couple. They apply a bit of honey on each other's lips just before they are pronounced married and share a kiss. This ritual symbolizes their promise to bring sweetness into each other's lives for years to come.
Unity Candle
The lighting of the unity candle signifies the shared commitment of both individuals as they begin their new life together. The bride and groom each ignite their individual candles, which symbolize their respective families. They then come together to light the larger central candle, representing the merging of their families, and the unified flame will illuminate their collective journey into married life.
Sand Pouring
The pair combines two distinct vases of sand (often in various colors) into a single container, resulting in a unique, layered design. Once this is done, the colors can never be separated, symbolizing the unification of two individuals for eternity. Many couples add a personal touch to this ceremony by including sand from significant places.
Handfasting Ceremony
A handfasting ceremony is a meaningful ritual that symbolizes the union of a couple by tying their hands together as a pledge of commitment to one another:
Origin - This tradition has its roots in Celtic culture, dating back over 2,000 years, particularly in Ireland and Scotland.
How it works - During the ceremony, the couple stands facing each other, joins hands, and a cloth or ribbon is fastened around their hands in a knot. The ceremony may involve:
Reciting vows that signify their devotion,
exchanging gifts, such as rings or a gold coin,
including promises to one another
Variations - Couples can decide whether to bind one or both hands, and the fabric used can be of a specific color or a clan tartan. This ceremony can either be the main highlight of the wedding or incorporated within it.
Other occasions - Handfasting can also be performed during engagements, anniversaries, and reaffirming vows.
It's advisable to experiment with different handfasting methods beforehand to find what feels right.
Remembering those who cannot attend your wedding
There are many ways to remember loved ones at a wedding ceremony, including:
Lighting a candle: A heartfelt gesture that can bring warmth and light to the memories of the deceased
Reserving a seat: A chair in the front row of the ceremony or a table at the reception can be a lovely way to honour someone
Carrying a family heirloom: Wearing a wedding ring, handkerchief, or other item can keep the memory of a loved one close
Wearing something significant: Wearing a watch or cuff links that belonged to the deceased can be a way to remember them
Moment of silence: A simple way to honour loved ones by asking guests to remember those who are not present
Incorporating their favourite flowers into the bouquet: A single flower or their favourite flowers can represent their presence
Displaying a framed picture or portrait: A framed picture or portrait can be a way to honour a loved one
